list with dragons
Each person has two sides; a unique Talent and a protective layer full of dragons. If you want to express your unique Talent, it's good to become aware of skills/behavioral patterns that keep you from it: your dragons.
Below you find a list of possible dragons. Choose one at a time, observe yourself for a while, learn how this dragon behaves and see how your attachment to this dragon diminishes.
BTW, this list is certainly not complete. Let me know what dragon you are missing on this list!
Accusing
Adjusting
Annoyed
Anxiety
Always helping others
Arrogant
Avoiding
Avoiding conflicts
Avoiding risks
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Being too late
Blaming
Blending in
Blocking
Boundaryless
Bragging
Bullying
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Chaotic
Closing up
Comparing
Complaining
Condemning
Controlling
Copying others
Critical
Crying​
Cynical
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Defensive
Demanding​
Dependent
Depressed​
Detaching
Distant
Discussing
Disengaged​​
Dominating
Downplaying
Dreaming
Drinking
Dropping out
Eating
Egoistic
Eliminating yourself
Exaggerating
Exploding
Expecting​
Fearing
Feeling like a Marter
Feeling less
Fighting
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Giggling
Gossiping
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Having a short fuse
Hiding
Headstrong
Helping everyone else​
Hesitating
Hyperactive
Hypersensitive
Hypochondriac ​
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Ignoring
Impulsive
Independent
Inpatient
Insulting
"I should..."
"It's not me"
"I will do it myself"
Jealous
Judging
Joking
Keeping it all to yourself
Keeping your head in the clouds
Knowing it all
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Lazy
Looking for kicks
Looking for rewards
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Making fun of things
Manic
Manipulating​
Multitasking
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Nagging
Neglecting
Never finishing
Not joining
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Observing
Others first
Overprotecting
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Passive
Patronizing
Perfecting
Pessimistic
Pleasing
Procrastinating
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Quitting
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Rationalising
Rigid​
Sacrificing
Sarcastic
Saying yes to everything
Searching conflicts
Self-doubting
Self-pity
Shutting down
Silent
Sloppy
Slow
Staying on guard
Stubborn​
Suppressing​​​
Suspicious
Social Media browsing
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Tactless
Taking up all the space
Talking
Teaching
Teasing
Thinking
Thinking negative thoughts
Tough
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Unprepared
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Withdrawing
Worrying
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"Yes, but..."
"You decide"
"You go first"
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